Provide JMX visibility into options applied via destination name query parameters

Users would like to be able to add meta information to a destination, such as the owner of a queue.
Destination options allow arbitrary information to be associated with a destination via a query parameter on the name.
They are normally hidden b/c they are interpreted internally as policy entry overrides so not generally of interest.
Providing visibility of this information makes it usable for meta info purposes b/c a user can add any information they like in there.

 <broker ...>
   <destinations>
     <queue physicalName="FOO.BAR?owner=joe&mobile=123" />
   </destinations>
 </broker>

via JMX the query string is available in the DestinationView via the options attribute.

Changing this information over time does not effect the destination.