Using the flink shaded jackson for flink-autoscaler

FLINK-33098 still using the jackson version of flink-kubernetes-operator instead of flink shaded version. I want to update it after flink-1.18 released.

The reason is : current autoscaler is using the loaderOptions to limit the serialized size.

• The shaded jackson version of flink-1.17 is 2.13.4-16.1, it doesn't support the loaderOptions.
• The shaded jackson version of flink-1.18 is 2.14.2-17.0, it supports the loaderOptions.

For details can be get from this comment[1].

[1] https://github.com/apache/flink-kubernetes-operator/pull/677#discussion_r1336571925