Flink Kubernetes Operator reconciliation parallelism setting not work

After we upgrade JOSDK to version 4.4.2 from version 4.3.0 in FLINK-33005 , we can not enlarge reconciliation parallelism , and the maximum reconciliation parallelism was only 10. This results FlinkDeployment and SessionJob 's reconciliation delay about 10-30 seconds when we have a large scale flink session cluster and session jobs in k8s cluster。
 

After investigating and validating, I found the reason is the logic for reconciliation thread pool creation in JOSDK has changed significantly between this two version. 

v4.3.0:
reconciliation thread pool was created as a FixedThreadPool ( maximumPoolSize was same as corePoolSize), so we pass the reconciliation thread and get a thread pool that matches our expectations.

https://github.com/operator-framework/java-operator-sdk/blob/v4.3.0/operator-framework-core/src/main/java/io/javaoperatorsdk/operator/api/config/ConfigurationServiceOverrider.java#L198

but in v4.2.0:

the reconciliation thread pool was created as a customer executor which we can pass corePoolSize and maximumPoolSize to create this thread pool.The problem is that we only set the maximumPoolSize of the thread pool, while, the corePoolSize of the thread pool is defaulted to 10. This causes thread pool size was only 10 and majority of events would be placed in the workQueue for a while.  

https://github.com/operator-framework/java-operator-sdk/blob/v4.4.2/operator-framework-core/src/main/java/io/javaoperatorsdk/operator/api/config/ExecutorServiceManager.java#L37

the solution is also simple, we can create and pass thread pool in flink kubernetes operator so that we can control the reconciliation thread pool directly, such as: