The build should fail if a -Dbundle option fails

Per some discussion with cmccabe, it would be good to refine and make it consistent the behaviors in bundling native libraries when building dist package.
For all native libraries to bundle, if the bundling option like -Dbundle.snappy is specified, then the lib option like -Dsnappy.lib will be checked and ensured to be there, but if not, it will then report error and fail the building explicitly.
BUILDING.txt would also be updated to explicitly state this behavior.