Make docker not a requirement for building metaserver

currently to build hudi-platform-service profile, we need docker or a local native thrift binary. see logic related to hudi-platform-service/hudi-metaserver/src/main/thrift/bin/thrift_binary.sh

Docker should not be a requirement for build a java project. Some other issue: the docker generated source files may lack of permission for current user to delete, which could result in mvn clean to fail. encountered this issue with GH actions CI. i have to change the ownership for generated folder with sudo, but this leaves a loophole in the dev build flow - people may run into permission issue when sudo was involved. See this PR https://github.com/apache/hudi/pull/7858/

The goal is to remove the docker requirement for build hudi project, and make thrift generation smooth across different OSes